People want to commit to things that give their lives meaning, but of course people fear committing to things that will fail to return the love. Many institutions have done just that, leaving people with a lack of faith in any organization. So today, the dream seems to be of “passive income,” “the 4-hour Work Week”, the billion-dollar exit, freelancing, personal branding, trading in and out to make money.
In other words, the current popular dream is all about Freedom. Freedom from commitment. Freedom from sacrifice. Freedom from geographical limitations. Freedom from work. Freedom from want.
Yet, most people either fail to achieve this freedom and therefore exist in a dissatisfied purgatory of long hours and no love, or they achieve their detachment and feel a lack of meaningful connection in their lives. They realize they want to be part of something.
Look at it from the customer’s point of view. Do you want to do business with something that is just good enough to be easy money for the owner, or do you want to interact with something that represents a core commitment of the people who are involved? Do you want to work for someone who just wants “envelope money” or do you want to be part of something that is incredibly meaningful to the owner.
Love for one’s company strikes the post-modern ear as almost completely ridiculous, a total anachronism. Yet, I will argue that this sort of love is both more needed and more effective today than ever, and that love for company alone has separated many of the super-performing organizations of our era from the also-rans and failures that are all too common. This love that I speak of is not a “strategy” or “tactic.” It’s not an MBA lesson that can be trained into managers in some sort of executive finishing school. It represents a very real, deep, often painful level of commitment, a level of commitment that can ultimately create great success, great wealth, but much more than that, great fellowship and a great sense of significance and achievement.
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